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Yesterday was an awful day, no lie

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Well, we have my daughter for the week, we received her on Friday, and she told us some awful news. I don't know what the heck to think about it, but we took her to the hospital today, filed a police report, and the detectives + Child protection services will be contacting us soon.

What happened? Well, my daughter told my mom, who then told me, that her "uncle" was touching her while she was visiting her other grandma's house, her uncle is only about 12-14 years old, and he touched my daughter in awful ways, my daughter told us everything. We knew something was wrong because she wouldn't hold that information from us, and quite frankly, I'm saddening that someone has touched my little girl.

I never thought I'd hear something like this, and truthfully, we believe my little girl because why would she lie about it? If it does come out that he did touch her in the wrong ways, then I hope law enforcement allows us to fully charge him even though he's young because no matter what, you should not put touch someone in the wrong ways. No matter how old you are, or who you are. And with him being her uncle, it makes matters even worse.

One of the officers that were at the hospital told my daughter's mom that if she brings her back to her "mom's house", well my daughter's grandparents house, she will be charged with a felony of "child endangerment", and really her mom was heart-broken because she won't be able to see her granddaughter until this situation is over with.

Kids should learn that its not okay to fool around like that, I don't care about my baby mama's brother at all, I truthfully don't because you don't do that to my little girl, you just don't. If I had it my way, I'd go to his house and beat the shit out of him, but for what? It wouldn't make a huge difference and would only get me into shit, so I'll leave it up to the law enforcement and CPS to handle this.
There could be a chance that it isn't true, but we'll leave that up to law enforcement to decide.
I was pissed off all day because of this, I didn't know what to do, but I kept my cool because I didn't want my daughter to know that daddy was really hurting inside, I remained strong, the cops asked me questions, and I told them everything that I knew.

We knew something was going on because my daughter is only 4 and she talks about sex, like who the fuck is teaching her this shit? I don't know, but only they now. My baby mama stated that she knows shit like this because she hangs out with older people, so why isn't this dumbass lady putting my daughter in daycare where she would be more safe and be able to be around kids her age so she doesn't pick up bad things?

I hope though that my daughter was right and truthful in everything that she told us, because if its true, her uncle deserves to go down hard. It doesn't matter how old he is because if he's doing it now, its obvious he'll do it when he's older as well.

Well, I'm glad I vented this out and got it off my chest because it's been hurting me since I heard about it.

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  1. Gwonk's Avatar
    Dang I'm so sorry man, I don't know what to say =( Thats really sad
  2. Earth's Avatar
    Good luck with this. I hope she has lied as it would be the best result in the long run, however you have done the right thing and I wish you all the best for getting through this.
  3. shiinxa's Avatar
    oh my, im so sorry. i hope it all works out as ok as possible, and like earth, i hope for her sake, and everyones sake, that she has imagine it. this is just horrid, we are here for you<3
  4. shiinxa's Avatar
    oops double post. sorry
  5. Corleone's Avatar
    Holy shit man! Hope it all works out! VPL's got your back!
  6. cpvr's Avatar
    @Gwonk Thank you. @Earth I know exactly what you mean, but we had to go with the word of my daughter because we couldn't just let her tell her something and not go get it checked out and file a report. It's so devasting, I'm expecting the worse but praying for the best. @shiinxa Thank you, I'll try my best to remain strong throughout this. My daughter needs me the most, and of course I love you guys all! Thank you so much for being there for me.
    @Corleone Of course, thank you for the support man. It truly means a lot to me.
  7. Nisa's Avatar
    I'm so sorry to hear! I agree, that it doesn't matter what his age is, he shouldn't be doing things like that. I really hope everything works out in favor of you and your little girl.
  8. Michi's Avatar
    *huggles @cpvr alot* I'm here if you need to talk to me. We all will be there for you.
  9. Shadow's Avatar
    Holy hell. I truly hope this gets brought to justice. Even though he is only 12 years old, you cannot have him thinking that that is an okay thing to do. Honestly, that seems like the beginning of a child molester thought process. If the police find him guilty, what charges will he face, being a kid and all?
    This has brought my blood boiling. I wish you luck, and you will keep us posted on this, won't you?
  10. vplspride's Avatar
    Updated 08-13-2012 at 02:19 PM by vplspride
  11. Lauren's Avatar
    Jesus @cpvr, I am so, so sorry to hear that. What a scumbag.
  12. Gabby's Avatar
    *twitch* I messaged you.
  13. cpvr's Avatar
    @Shadow I have no idea to tell you the truth, but rest assure I will keep everyone updated. The cops that were at the hospital taking our report said it can take up to a year for everything to be handled and such.
    @vplspride Thank you, which is why I plan to do a lot of things with her this week before she comes home to her mom. Like the park, pool, etc. Just so she understands daddy will always be there for her.
    @Lauren Thank you. That's the same thing I told her mother, and she was like "What do you really want to happen in this?" I said well, our daughter isnt' going to lie to us, so what I want is justice be served.
    @Gabby Replied, thanks.
  14. cpvr's Avatar
    Well CPS sent us a letter in the mail, and stated "Case closed".

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