Quote Originally Posted by Gabby View Post
@cpvr
I usually don't have to deal with jealousy. If I want something, I will work for it. If it's jealousy over someone else, I usually get over it fast
Yeah, this is how I deal with jealousy too. If I want something I divide it into short term/long term and see if I can meet it soon or later. If it's later, I shelve it off for the future, and stop thinking about it. (Yay, for logic!)
Then I focus on how I'm gonna get there, or focus on my short term "wants" and usually the progress motivates me and gets me over jealousy. ~ Jealousy over someone? I identify what part of them I'm jealous about, then if it's a weakness of mine I just improve. (like if someone is an amazing artist, I just improve my art a little bit at a time, or if someone's good at public speaking, I try and learn from them and figure out how I can get better). If I can't improve or if it's just a natural born talent, I just change my perspective and view the person as an inspiration and appreciate what they do. <3

I just like to think I'm down-to-earth and pretty chill (happy with my life so far), so I hardly get worked up about jealousy in the first place. ^o^