Let us know if you find the right site/community for yourself @streakanime
Icepets. Better community, better pets. Better people. Better everything XD
It depends on what you enjoy on Neopets.
Aywas would be great if you more enjoy working with pet colors, since there's so many different combinations to choose from.
Paladore would be good if you're more into collecting, battling, and competition.
If you're looking for a more overall Neopet-like experience, then pretty much any of the older pet sites like Powerpets or Marapets would be great.
If you want that experience but don't care about size, then I'd probably recommend Icepets, Boopets, or Misticpets.