Well through work this past summer I met this girl that I really have bonded with. I really don't bond with people and become friends with them. But it just has happened and we have become good friends.
Knowing her the past few months she has talked about how close she is with her boyfriend, and how her boyfriend wanted to settle down and get married and have a baby. When many times she was on the phone with him fighting, or telling me things about him that sent me red flags about him and her relationship and if it would last a long time.
Also, she wears low cut stuff. Like low cut tops that reveal her cleavage, and hip hugging pants that reveal part of her ass crack at times and at times you can see her g-string. At times I have seen her deliberately bend down in front of guys so they could see all of this. Then she gets mad when they make comments or flirt with her. Anyway I have always looked past this, but worried about her at times and if she would be safe.
About last week she tells my husband and I that her boyfriend/fiance was thinking of breaking up with her. Then she mentioned she thought she might be pregnant and wondered if he would stick around. I knew she couldn't be pregnant because she had her time of the month around the same time as me, and at one point complained to my manager that she needed to get into the office to get her tampons and indicated to me she was flowing heavy (not to be gross or anything but this is what happened).
Then about a day later after she told me he was thinking of breaking up with her, she tells my husband and I that they are staying together and that she is pregnant! And he is only staying with her because of the baby. And I am thinking errrr hello you just had your period a week ago. My husband asks her when the last time she had her period and if she was sure, and she tells him she is not sure when she had it (ummmm you told me when you had it!!!), and he tells her she should go to a doctor and get another test there to be 100% sure. Then 2 days later suddenly she has seen a doctor and it is all confirmed. I may be wrong here, but I am pretty sure you can't see most doctors that fast. Unless she went to a clinic or something. And don't you usually have to wait on the blood work for a day or two, for the blood test?
This is all just not adding up for me, and I am really worried for her. No matter what it is she can tell me the truth and I will be there for her and help her. I also hope nothing else is mentally going on with her either. I guess I don't care why she is lying and just really worried for her. She is a really beautiful intelligent girl, and should know she shouldn't have to be desperate to lie and keep a guy. Any opinions on this?