Paladore Staff

[Toad]

Also, if I am granted permission from Velxeor and the group and the moderators of this site to post an example of a sexual conversation, I would post it. Just to show you guys how it gets off hand.

They were literally talking about sex. Not hints of sex, but the act itself. And it's not just that, but potentially offensive topics have been stated on the shoutbox.

[cpvr]

Also, if I am granted permission from Velxeor and the group and the moderators of this site to post an example of a sexual conversation, I would post it. Just to show you guys how it gets off hand.

They were literally talking about sex. Not hints of sex, but the act itself. And it's not just that, but potentially offensive topics have been stated on the shoutbox.

So, the staff allowed a sexual conversation to go on? Ouch.

[Kyuubi]

Also, if I am granted permission from Velxeor and the group and the moderators of this site to post an example of a sexual conversation, I would post it. Just to show you guys how it gets off hand.

They were literally talking about sex. Not hints of sex, but the act itself. And it's not just that, but potentially offensive topics have been stated on the shoutbox.

Glad I wasn't there to see that ; n ;

[Toad]

They weren't talking too explicitly about it (at least, not as explicit as I've seen on some chat boxes), they were just talking about sex. Someone also asked them if it was really appropriate, but someone threatened them to report the people who are talking about it and that it wasn't stated in the rules that sex talk is inappropriate. Just a really concrete example, but it's only if I am given permission to post it. I don't want to potentially break rules of this site.

I'm going to tag just to be sure: @cpvr

[Velxeor]

This is the conversation Toad was talking about. All names besides Toad's are censored.

S********* (1,251)
my best friend, Tony, has threesomes wth his gf and other girls
5:28:36am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
constantly
5:28:38am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
its like...the ultimate straight guy fantasy
5:28:53am 2012-01-20


C******* (941)
Whoa that is weird
5:28:53am 2012-01-20


A*** (753)
heh. I had an ex like that with fantasies when i was 14. I wasn't having it and he was like, look at that girl, that's a real woman, why don't you look like her or act like her? That did a whole lot of damage to me.
5:29:34am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
thats rude a***.
5:30:02am 2012-01-20


E******** (509)
im surpised we lasted for the short amount of time we did. he seriously asked me to have sex with him 4 days into our relationship
5:30:04am 2012-01-20


C********* (941)
Heee sounds like a D, A***.
5:30:06am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
i wuold have kicked hi min the gonads
5:30:09am 2012-01-20


E******** (509)
thats terrible a***, whatta jerk
5:30:18am 2012-01-20


A*** (753)
I was too shy at the time, before I took karate, I would have s******
5:30:33am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
never ever is it okay to compare the person you are with, with someone else. then lament about why you are different.
5:30:39am 2012-01-20


E******** (509)
i would have broken up with him so fast. like my ex just was horny he didnt make low blows at my self esteem
5:30:43am 2012-01-20


F******** (370)
I've been reconsidering . My friend, somehow, got me real deep into yaoi fics, don't ask, and since I'm bi, I really had no problem with them. But when I tried yuri, I actually was pushing all the yuri fics away. I like some girls, but sometimes it's just awkward for me. Then I see a guy and it feels like there's a stronger bond. So I don't know. I'm either straight, or a bi that leans towards boys. :/
5:30:46am 2012-01-20


C***** (720)
:I He sounds like a real.. ""winner"" A***.
5:31:03am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
what the hell is yaoifics
5:31:14am 2012-01-20


A*** (753)
Hah. Don't worry I'm with a guy who treats me like a princess now
5:31:25am 2012-01-20


E******** (509)
f***** my friend's like that. shes dated a few girls but cant really seem to get that close to them. its normal
5:31:30am 2012-01-20


A*** (753)
I did slap him once. He tried to rape me, that ended that.
5:31:56am 2012-01-20


F******** (370)
@S*****: Gay stories.
5:32:01am 2012-01-20


E******** (509)
oh my god thats terrible
5:32:09am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
thats why i believe in love, not sexual orientation
5:32:12am 2012-01-20


F******** (370)
@E********: I hope. xD
5:32:14am 2012-01-20


A*** (753)
of course i'm much older now
5:32:15am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
a***, i change my mind. should have cut them off, not kicked them.
5:32:31am 2012-01-20


C******* (941)
<3 S****
5:32:33am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
i dont consider myself gay or bi. i just like boys
5:32:52am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
lol
5:32:58am 2012-01-20


A*** (753)
Aww. I was timid then. 8 years later i'm much different
5:33:06am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
but im also old now, too
5:33:16am 2012-01-20


E******** (509)
that man deserves straight up castration
5:33:20am 2012-01-20


D**** (1,441)
Is all this talk about sex really acceptable in the shoutbox.
5:33:27am 2012-01-20


D***** (1,185)
^
5:33:34am 2012-01-20


C***** (720)
E********, I completely agree.
5:33:36am 2012-01-20


A*** (753)
Sorry. *stops and plays palia*
5:34:04am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
you go report us all, then, d****
5:34:08am 2012-01-20


C******* (941)
I honestly don't know xD;
5:34:28am 2012-01-20


C***** (720)
D****, I.. don't know. Was it that sort of talk? xD I thought it was just.. random babble about super bad relationships ._. Sorry D****-pie.
5:34:38am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
C*****. dont apologize. people are just rude
5:34:58am 2012-01-20


Toad (1,159)
I think S*****, you're Pansexual. o 3 o IDK, the way I understand Pan is that they lean towards the personality of the person and not the gender. They don't care about who they're dating, just so as they like them as a person. C:
5:35:15am 2012-01-20


E******** (509)
imma get back to my competency. its 12:30 and i have last day of finals tomorrow
5:35:24am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
if you prefer labels, then yes. im pansexual
5:35:33am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
but i dont date girls, at all
5:35:45am 2012-01-20


E******** (509)
i really think i might just cram or something instead of sleeping
5:35:46am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
roflmao
5:35:47am 2012-01-20


E******** (509)
i am so straight its not even funny
5:36:05am 2012-01-20


C***** (720)
I'm probably pansexual.. xD I prefer personality and getting along with someone over gender, or looks. Anywho, *shushes and goes play RPG* x3
5:36:21am 2012-01-20


B**** (1,316)
How is D**** being rude? I don't exactly come online to this website to read a bunch of sex talk. And considering it's generally frowned upon here- idk. do what you will.
5:36:25am 2012-01-20


C******* (941)
I like that term, C*****
5:36:32am 2012-01-20


A*** (753)
Same as you E********, but i'll admit when a girl is pretty
5:36:39am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
yall show me in the rules, where its said its unallowed
5:36:47am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
and ill shut up
5:36:49am 2012-01-20


S****** (651)
I only care about the person. like M** could be a guy and I wouldnt care.
5:36:51am 2012-01-20


S********* (1,251)
but im quite tired of people bullying the sb
5:37:09am 2012-01-20


E******** (509)
Under no circumstances is a user allowed to use inappropriate language (swearing , profanity, vulgarity, obscenity, abusive or foul words)
5:37:14am 2012-01-20


E******** (509)
i dont think it got there but i did think it was in danger or reaching profanity
5:37:41am 2012-01-20


F******** (370)
Anyways, it was fun talking to you guys. It's midnight where I live and my parents are about to throw shoes at me. ^^' Goodnight. I'll try to get on tomorrow since I've been a little inactive lately.
5:37:58am 2012-01-20


C***** (720)
Nah B****, twas an honest mistake for me; I didn't realize it was even talking about it, from what I saw and commented on earlier; it was what you preferred in the person you liked, and quite bad relationships . Again, sorry - I'mma just shush. But, can I get a party in the RPG?
5:38:16am 2012-01-20


S****** (651)
like I said tho I prefer girls but if a guy happens to be the type of person I like I wouldnt say no just becaue hes a guy
5:38:34am 2012-01-20


A*** (753)
Yes, I apologize if I offended anyone.
5:38:54am 2012-01-20


S****** (651)
i appologize if i did too
5:39:14am 2012-01-20


E******** (509)
i like guys. ive never even liked a girl, but i can say someones hot or something. but i like those guys that dont date a lot of girls for some reason. it just happens
5:39:39am 2012-01-20

[FallenAngel]

That was in the shoutbox?? Ok, now that /definitely/ crosses the line.

[Jinxx]

That definitely crosses the line. And for people to say that the person was "Bullying them" is out of line. They weren't bullying them. They were obviously uncomfortable with the situation. Talking about sex, rape, threesomes, and everything else like that is very very vulgar in my mind. I don't want to go on a site and read about that unless I'm either forewarned or even expect it.

On a site like Paladore that's said to be trying to allow underage kids on, that is definitely not allowed. It shouldn't even cross their minds because of the fact of how vulgar that is in my mind. Talking about how "he almost raped you" like it's nothing is very unnerving. I don't know if the person is lying because of the fact that I'm pretty sure you wouldn't just be talking about rape like it's nothing.

[whisperingspirit]

This conversation must have happened while I was offline. I usually lurk the SB and didn't see anything like that 0_o. Can't believe that was even being allowed. Could be there wasn't any mods online during the time however? :/

[FallenAngel]

I haven't see the conversation before hand, but I assume the A*** is Alex???

[Draco]

No. It wasn't Alex.

I've been there at the time of the conversation and I can assure you of that.