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You Ever Had This Type of Friend?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Michi, Jul 29, 2012.

  1. Michi

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    You know the type, the kind that is there for you at first, cares for you, even loves you and then slowly they start to change. They do things that you never believe they could do, push others away, run to you with all their problems and lying about them to get your support over another friend she lied and used, or a boyfriend she is starting to get bored with. You put your trust in them, more and more, though you know in your heart something is wrong. You try to help them change to be better, and then them seem to, but revert at the slightest push. Tells you one thing and lies about having ever said it. Yeah that type.

    I had that type of friend. I loved them, cried with them, was there to be their shoulder while the cry... And now it was my turn to be hated, despised, and lied to. All I did was be a good friend... And now its over... *sighs*

    You ever had that type of friend before? Was it hard to end it?
     
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    Re: You Ever Had This Type pf Friend?

    Yup, it ended after death threats started happening and the police got involved.
     
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    Re: You Ever Had This Type pf Friend?

    @MichiMichi
    You poor thing =/ I'm sorry that happened. I don't know you in real life, but from seeing you around the forum you seem like a really sweet person. You deserve so much better <3
     
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    Re: You Ever Had This Type pf Friend?

    You certainly know I have been there.. *hugs* If you need to talk, AIM me. <3
     
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    @MichiMichi Some people are scumbags. I've met a few people like that in my life. I'm sorry you had to experience this though. I'm there for if you need me though *hugs* things will only get better for you. They don't deserve to be your friend. A true friend is there for us, no matter what, doesn't hurt us or anything.
     
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    Re: You Ever Had This Type pf Friend?

    @MichiMichi You name the kind of a friend, I've had it. lol If all, you'll know better next time, so just fuck it. ;)
     
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    Re: You Ever Had This Type pf Friend?

    Thank you guys.

    Yeah its really nice to be called a liar now too since i'm the one upset by what she said to me...
     
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    *snuggs a Michi* They were a douchebag and you deserve better hun.
     
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    It's like you and I share the same story. It's hard finding true friends these days.
     
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    Yes it is, but I do have some true friends. Just none in rl.
     
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    Right? The virtual world is a lot nicer to me than the real one, but don't get me wrong the virtual one can be cruel as well.
     
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    Oh I know. Trust me. I know the good side and the bad side. I learnt it all from Neopets too. *sighs*
     
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    *Sigh* I learned my first go around from Nutrino, but it didn't stop there -.-
     
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    Honestly... when does it ever stop?
     
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    As long as the trouble and drama starters keep moving around, it never will -.-
     
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    Exactly. And the sad thing most of the time its the same people doing the drama too.
     
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    Yep, that's why I'm laying a little low from the VPS. I want one that's decent or just like VPL but a pet site lol.
     
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    Urrrgh, everytime... everytime. I totally understand you. D:

    It's always hard to end a friendship, but sometimes it's just what you have to do -- move on, find better friends and companions. Just remember that whoever's treated you badly is only one person. There's so many more people out there, who are much nicer and more understanding. :) You really never forget your original friends - and I don't think you should forget them; instead, be willing to forgive them and have them back in your life 10 or 20 years down the road once they learn from their mistakes - but when you really have tried your best to keep a friendship and know it won't ever work, there's nothing else you can do but move on.

    I despise it more when I get sidelined by people I care about. I care really deeply about them, but then they brush me to the side when I WANT to help them- when I'm willing to help them however I can. They go seek help from people who they know won't help them. And they start complaining why no one listens to them, and that no one understands them - to me - when they don't give me a chance to help them. That I'm right there, backing them up every step of the way, but refusing to let me help or acknowledging that I'm the one that will really listen to them... And it sucks even more when my friends say "You won't understand, you've never been in my situation!".

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    Sometimes it's hard to move on, but you really got to do what you got to do.

    If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm always here, @MichiMichi. <3
    Even if I don't really know you, I'll listen. :)
     
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    I know @NeonNeon. Thank you. I'm more worried right now because it happen on a petsite that shares account (Aywas). We shared one. She raged quit, and I was moving out anyway, but my problem is a breeding is connected to that account that doesn't belong to me (used an expensive item that regens every 90 days). Right now I'm awaiting back from the admins if there is anything I can do because my "lair partner" already posted she wants the account banned. The deadline is two weeks for me to move out so I have that time, but breedings don't exactly get done fast and they can't transfer it to either my new account or the account of the person it belongs to. So I'm trying to find a way to make sure the breeding either gets done in time or find a way to transfer it by cancelling or resubmitting or something else. Thank god Eri is understanding about the situation. but still. I'm worried about the breeding.
     
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    You will be fine, it'll all work out. Like Neon said we're always here for you even if we don't know each other. That's how "REAL" friendships are made.
     
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