Dating someone who's jobless?

[Heatman]

Personally, I’m not interested in dating someone who isn’t working. If I were jobless myself, I honestly wouldn’t even feel comfortable dating either.

I don’t think it’s fair for one person to carry all the financial responsibilities in a relationship.

Have you ever dated someone who didn’t have a job?

 

[Nomad]

I have dated with girls who did not have any income. That was when I was in college.

 

[Demon_skeith]

I wouldn't do it either if they had no income, its just trouble waiting to drag you down.

 

[Ja sa bong]

Imagine dating a liability, getting married to her and after a few years, she files for divorce and takes half of your assets. Some men who don't get a woman to sign a prenup are really very foolish.

 

[Milla]

Dating needs money, you need money to maintain a relationship, therefore, I wouldn't date a person who doesn't have a job. I also wouldn't get into relationship if I don't have any income

 

[cpvr]

I've dating someone that was jobless in the past. That was actually my daughter's mom, as I told her to quit working and I'd handle the duties of the household. This also happened prior to us getting married up until our daughter was born, and I continued working as well.

For me, it does not matter if someone is jobless, or not. Love is love, but every situation is different for everyone.

Imagine dating a liability, getting married to her and after a few years, she files for divorce and takes half of your assets. Some men who don't get a woman to sign a prenup are really very foolish.

This did not happen to me, and I've been married twice. I had a divorce lawyer for one, but not the other, however our assests were not involved in either one. We all left on good terms, except for one.


Signing a prenup was out of the picture in both of my marriages, I did not care for that. I would have someone to sign a prenup in a marriage, especially when love involved, that to me is foolish.

Unless you do not trust the person that you are getting married too, then sure.

 

[nightmares]

Also dont date anyone who does have a job but spends all their money on fast food or games/game systems leaving you (disabled mother of 4, recovering from numerous life saving surgeries) to come up with bill money because they kept saying they paid their half of the bills and come to find out... they weren't. Lol.

Funny thing about life, though, is free will. Like... free will of leaving someone if they pull you down and don't help you achieve your goals.

 

[Baw$e]

I would, but only if she isn’t lazy, either actively looking for work or helping out around the house.

 

[Heatman]

Dating needs money, you need money to maintain a relationship, therefore, I wouldn't date a person who doesn't have a job. I also wouldn't get into relationship if I don't have any income

You're right. To me, it's not just having an income but a steady job and savings which can guarantee me being able to take care of my responsibilities.

 

[Fidelia]

When you date someone that is jobless, you know that you are obligated to support them financially. Don't get me wrong. I support my partner financially as something that I want to do, and not something that I am condemned to do.

 

[brainyga]

I can't date someone that is jobless.
Dating a man with no job is an error, a big one. Supposing you get married to such person how will you run the home? I just can't work

 

[Alisa]

I wouldn't mind dating a jobless person but dating game requires money and at least one of us needs to have an income.

 

[Heatman]

I can't date someone that is jobless.
Dating a man with no job is an error, a big one. Supposing you get married to such person how will you run the home? I just can't work

It's exactly the same thing for opposite gender. Dating a lady who's jobless is a big time liability any man shouldn't take on especially not in this economy now.

 

[Ja sa bong]

I've dating someone that was jobless in the past. That was actually my daughter's mom, as I told her to quit working and I'd handle the duties of the household. This also happened prior to us getting married up until our daughter was born, and I continued working as well.

For me, it does not matter if someone is jobless, or not. Love is love, but every situation is different for everyone.


This did not happen to me, and I've been married twice. I had a divorce lawyer for one, but not the other, however our assests were not involved in either one. We all left on good terms, except for one.


Signing a prenup was out of the picture in both of my marriages, I did not care for that. I would have someone to sign a prenup in a marriage, especially when love involved, that to me is foolish.

Unless you do not trust the person that you are getting married too, then sure.

Successful men stand to lose so much when their wife file for divorce. It's more painful when they've made their money before getting married only to have their so called wives file for divorce and take half of their assets.

It's a common thing for modern women today and if you don't guard your wealth, they will steal it from you.

Pep Guardiola was recently divorced by his wife and she took half of his asset. Does he love his wife? Why did she file for a divorce? According to the information out there, she said he's giving too much time to his work as the Manager of Manchester City and not much at home, that was her excuse and reason for filing for divorce. If she doesn't stand a chance to take half of his assets, would she ever file for divorce? I don't think so.

Never underestimate when the women of this generation are capable of doing. Most men are there for love while they are in marriage for money.

 

[PetTownWorldGames]

A homemaker is a big job so yes I would but only if they did house work (this is coming from a woman)

 

[cpvr]

Successful men stand to lose so much when their wife file for divorce. It's more painful when they've made their money before getting married only to have their so called wives file for divorce and take half of their assets.

It's a common thing for modern women today and if you don't guard your wealth, they will steal it from you.

Pep Guardiola was recently divorced by his wife and she took half of his asset. Does he love his wife? Why did she file for a divorce? According to the information out there, she said he's giving too much time to his work as the Manager of Manchester City and not much at home, that was her excuse and reason for filing for divorce. If she doesn't stand a chance to take half of his assets, would she ever file for divorce? I don't think so.

Never underestimate when the women of this generation are capable of doing. Most men are there for love while they are in marriage for money.

I don't underestimate anyone, and I'm not concerned with other people's relationships tbh. I've been married twice. Quite frankly, I don't care what modern women are capable of doing nor do I concern myself in things that do not pertain to me, and that includes other people's divorce matters.

What happens in one relationship does not mean it will happen to another. Do you live your life in fear of the unknown, or do you live you life to the fullest?

Things were also on the line in my marriages as well, and no, nothin was taken in those marriages, as we had good lawyers that fought for what ours.

You can live your life the way you want to, in fear of the what if, the what will, but then again, that is not the right way to the live. Can't nobody hold you hand to do that, and that includes relationships. I also believe that's a huge stereotype as far as men and women, do you know them all? I don't think so.

 

[Zani]

I rejected a relationship proposal in the past because I wasn't doing anything tangible to cater for myself then. So, I can't even imagine accepting to date someone who's not making income. The relationship will be so boring.