Dating someone who's jobless?

[Heatman]

Personally, I’m not interested in dating someone who isn’t working. If I were jobless myself, I honestly wouldn’t even feel comfortable dating either.

I don’t think it’s fair for one person to carry all the financial responsibilities in a relationship.

Have you ever dated someone who didn’t have a job?

 

[Nomad]

I have dated with girls who did not have any income. That was when I was in college.

 

[Demon_skeith]

I wouldn't do it either if they had no income, its just trouble waiting to drag you down.

 

[Ja sa bong]

Imagine dating a liability, getting married to her and after a few years, she files for divorce and takes half of your assets. Some men who don't get a woman to sign a prenup are really very foolish.

 

[Milla]

Dating needs money, you need money to maintain a relationship, therefore, I wouldn't date a person who doesn't have a job. I also wouldn't get into relationship if I don't have any income

 

[cpvr]

I've dating someone that was jobless in the past. That was actually my daughter's mom, as I told her to quit working and I'd handle the duties of the household. This also happened prior to us getting married up until our daughter was born, and I continued working as well.

For me, it does not matter if someone is jobless, or not. Love is love, but every situation is different for everyone.

Imagine dating a liability, getting married to her and after a few years, she files for divorce and takes half of your assets. Some men who don't get a woman to sign a prenup are really very foolish.

This did not happen to me, and I've been married twice. I had a divorce lawyer for one, but not the other, however our assests were not involved in either one. We all left on good terms, except for one.


Signing a prenup was out of the picture in both of my marriages, I did not care for that. I would have someone to sign a prenup in a marriage, especially when love involved, that to me is foolish.

Unless you do not trust the person that you are getting married too, then sure.

 

[nightmares]

Also dont date anyone who does have a job but spends all their money on fast food or games/game systems leaving you (disabled mother of 4, recovering from numerous life saving surgeries) to come up with bill money because they kept saying they paid their half of the bills and come to find out... they weren't. Lol.

Funny thing about life, though, is free will. Like... free will of leaving someone if they pull you down and don't help you achieve your goals.

 

[Baw$e]

I would, but only if she isn’t lazy, either actively looking for work or helping out around the house.

 

[Heatman]

Dating needs money, you need money to maintain a relationship, therefore, I wouldn't date a person who doesn't have a job. I also wouldn't get into relationship if I don't have any income

You're right. To me, it's not just having an income but a steady job and savings which can guarantee me being able to take care of my responsibilities.