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It is amazing how we easily make friends and build relationships online in this digital era. Most of us know people online deeper than we know our next door neighbours. Many people don't have relationships with their next door neighbours but have strong relationships with a couple of people online.

Do you have a very strong relationship with your next door neighbour still?
 
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No, I don't have a strong relationship with my next-door neighbour. It is not like we don't greet every day, but I've decided to be careful with oversharing things with neighbours as some of them might end up using that against you in the future.
 
My neighbour and I just greeted each other. that’s all. “good morning” and “good evening”. That happens once in a while, there is no deep friendship. Honestly, I'm fine with that.

Such relationship is only good once you have developed a negative opinion about your neighbours because I can't see the reason I won't discuss about TV shows with a neighbour, for example, if they are in for it.
 
We are not enemies if that's what you're asking about. We greet when we see especially if I'm driving out, other than that, we mind our business.

To avoid a situation where they know a lot of information about me and what they can end up using against me, I do this as well. Minding my business is not a bad thing after all.
 
To avoid a situation where they know a lot of information about me and what they can end up using against me, I do this as well. Minding my business is not a bad thing after all.
My personal privacy is very important to me. I can't gamble with it. Also, I can't be freely open to anyone simply because we are neighbours. I don't know what they are into because people do a lot of shaddy stuffs.
 
I do not have a strong relationship but I don't have any kind of conflict. I have just hello/hi kind of relationship with my neighbors.
 
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I do have a pretty close relationship with my neighbors. We've been pretty close since my family and I moved into this neighborhood.
Unless I've lived in a neighbourhood for so long that we have had our kids grew up together, then I'd very open to being in a close relationship with them.
 
Unless I've lived in a neighbourhood for so long that we have had our kids grew up together, then I'd very open to being in a close relationship with them.
Precisely, I had that same relationship with my former neighbors when I lived on the east coast as well, but, I moved to Texas at the age of 15, so now, I'm able to keep in touch with those same neighbors via the phone and via social media.

Which in itself is still wonderful.

When you move around a lot during your childhood, it is not easy to keep the same tight nit relationships that you had growing up, but fortunately, it is awesome that I'm able able to still connect with them via social media and phone calls. 😉

I tend to live in the same neighborhood for years on end, so having close relationships with my neighbors is something that I love having.
 
It is just hello and hi. Beyond that I don’t have any business with my neighbours
 
It is just hello and hi. Beyond that I don’t have any business with my neighbours
Do you know one of the main reason why I'm in good terms with my neighbors is as a result of security needs. I left my electric cooker on, went out one day and light came. It would have burnt down my apartment if then didn't come to switch off my control switch.
 
Honestly I'm very introverted in real life so I don't talk to my neighbors often. I did meet my neighbor to the left of me last year since I checked the mail and we got a package that was meant for him. I seen that he was outside doing yardwork with his son so I came up, introduced myself and gave him his package. He was a chill guy, we didn't talk for long since I get nervous talking to new people lol.
 
I am always cordial with all my neighbors. I greet them when we gets to meet whether in the compound or outside. I'm just cool with everyone
 
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I have a good relationship with my neighbours. I frequently visit their house and I also invite them in mine.