It is always very good when you have family members who understand that from time to time you're going to need assistance from them and they don't even have to wait for you to ask it before they give you the support they can be able to afford.
I am grateful because of my family. They are really helpful from time to time. We have each other at mind that we are finding ways to help ourselves and not using bad energy to separate ourselves.
Let me understand something, is it that they don't have the money to give which you clearly needed or they don't want to give it?
I understand what you mean perfectly well. It's only the person that wears the shoe knows where the pain is coming from. Maybe they are acting bossy and judgemental because they are helping you out. I believe that they need someone to tell them their wrongs in order to retract their steps before it's late.
Is there a reason that makes you not to like them a lot? Our family supposed to be our first love even though they might be annoying but we needs to love them regardless.
Now, I am seeing your reason for not liking them. They are making things go worse by gambling and smoking. I will do same if I'm the one, to cut ties with the family that don't do meaningful things.
What kind of help do you usually ask for from your family members (parents or siblings)?
My family can give all for me, I can run to them for anything but emotionally, they will always tried their best but I guess I can only be better if I am left alone.
They are the best people to help when you're feeling so down or depressed. They know you better than anyone else except for your partner.
I'll always be my brother's backbone as long as I still breath and he's the same for me too. We are the two pillars that's holding up our family's head high.
It's only the two of us in the family. Our sister is already married and started her own family. We have to look out for each other always.
