Have you ever taken a blame that was not yours for the sake of peace?

[Ja sa bong]

Some people usually don't like to have issues with anyone to the point of taking the blame and apologising for what they didn't do. Honestly, I wouldn't be willing to compromise that easily because I believe it ultimately do more harm than good to me.

Would you accept false responsibility to maintain harmony in relationships, family or work?

 

[Nomad]

Yes, I do this all the time, especially within the family setting. However, outside the family I don't take a blame on something I didn't do it. I don't care about peace if it makes me culprit.

 

[Demon_skeith]

More times than I can count, having a hard headed boss sucks a lot of times...

 

[Heatman]

If I'll take the blame of what I never did just for the sake of peace, it means the problem isn't from me. The person who's at force doesn't actually want peace would love to manipulate me all the time.

I'll never apologise for what I never did wrong in my life.

 

[Mil Yu]

It is very difficult to take that blame when you are convinced that you are not the one to be blamed. But there are certain situations that are so sensitive and I have to take those blames for peace because escalation won't favour anyone.

 

[Zani]

I can never accept being blamed for an offence that I didn't commit because if I do, there are chances that the other person might end up using that against me in the future.

 

[Ja sa bong]

I can never accept being blamed for an offence that I didn't commit because if I do, there are chances that the other person might end up using that against me in the future.

This is how I feel about such too because if they succeeded in making me accept the blame for what I never did, they would expect me to be doing so all the time.

 

[Alisa]

Sometimes I do, especially when I don’t want the discussion to get heated.

 

[King Belieal]

I have taken the blame severally just for the sake of peace. There are certain times I don't want an issue to escalate beyond a level and I take the blame.

 

[Zani]

This is how I feel about such too because if they succeeded in making me accept the blame for what I never did, they would expect me to be doing so all the time.

You are on the right path. Some won't respect you once they realise that you can't stand your ground on a matter that you are right.

 

[cpvr]

Absolutely not, I would not take responsibility for anything that I didn't do for the sake of any relationship or any situation. For what?

I am my own person at the end of the day. If I did something, it is my responsible. If one person did something, then that's their obligation to take responsibility. Especially considering the fact that I do not put myself in situations that would require me to take the blame for an offense.

Also, In regards for peace and harmony, I'll live my life with peace & harmony regardless.

 

[Heatman]

Absolutely not, I would not take responsibility for anything that I didn't do for the sake of any relationship or any situation. For what?

I am my own person at the end of the day. If I did something, it is my responsible. If one person did something, then that's their obligation to take responsibility. Especially considering the fact that I do not put myself in situations that would require me to take the blame for an offense.

Also, In regards for peace and harmony, I'll live my life with peace & harmony regardless.

There was a lady I dated some years ago who tried doing that with me, I had to end the relationship immediately without thinking twice.

I pity people who are weak to stand up when they are right over being manipulated.

 

[Zani]

Absolutely not, I would not take responsibility for anything that I didn't do for the sake of any relationship or any situation. For what?

I am my own person at the end of the day. If I did something, it is my responsible. If one person did something, then that's their obligation to take responsibility. Especially considering the fact that I do not put myself in situations that would require me to take the blame for an offense.

Also, In regards for peace and harmony, I'll live my life with peace & harmony regardless.

I agree with your notion. I sleep better knowing that I didn't succumb to pressures to accept being at fault for something that I didn't do. I can't be the bigger person and that's the reason my boyfriend, sometimes, says that I am too stubborn.