Ultimately, it heavily depends on what my mood is after I get home from work. If I’ve had a long or bad day, I’ll usually opt to play something lighter. Farming sims, open-world survival craft, etc. Games like Valheim come to mind especially, which I have been playing lately. Sure, it can be grindy, but it doesn’t feel like a chore.
Horror games tend to not be something I play if I’m already stressed or tired. I love them, but I have to be in the right mood to really enjoy them.