Wow ! That's pretty impressive! 90% to a girl is indeed a very high score. She must be very adorable.
What I learned is that trust issues can cause communication breakdowns. So I solve almost all our issues with communication and dialogue.
Sounds like you're more at 100%... where's the 10% doubt if you have effective communication?
We are not perfect, so mistakes happen, that's why I prepare my mind incase the unexpected happens.
Having a good communication with your partner is very good. No form of relationship can survive with poor communication.
They are some people that got heart broken because the person they open up to and tell everything betrayed them. It's one of the reason they can't trust easily.
No one is going to blame you for this because it's the right decision. If you can't trust them, you shouldn't be in a relationship.
I understand very well that trust is definitely something that can be broken so easily especially if you are with the wrong person and once it's broken, it will be hard to repair. But if you're with the right person, openness is crucial for a healthy relationship.
It will be repaired but it will take time. Where it's so difficult is trying to trust the person back again, that's where the difficulty in trusting became so hard.
Rebuilding trust is hard and takes time. In that case, those involved need to talk openly and honestly with each other. They need to set clear boundaries and forgive slowly. Trust is actually earned, not given.
