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What age gaps are you okay with in a relationship?

Heatman said:
If even age doesn't seem like it matter about being mature, I'm still never going to be interested in getting into a relationship with someone too younger or too older more than 10 years.
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Age doesn't matter and I can never date someone that's too old because it will be too boring or someone that's too young because it will look as a childish play.
 
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Heatman said:
What age would you consider to be too old and too young for you to date someone?
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For me, my partner can't be older than me with 6 years, anything that's more than that looks old in my eyes. I can't be older than my partner with 5 years because it will look like we are doing childish play.

I know it will work for other people but to me, I never like it that way.
 
Cory said:
I tried dating a 19-year-old when I was 29. That didn't go over well. I should've realized someone that age just coming into the fruition of adulthood would still be immature and lack understanding of certain aspects of human beings. I would probably only date someone 5 - 7 years younger/older than me at this point.
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Yeah 10-year age gap can be challenging even if age is just a number. But maturity levels and life experiences matters here. I don't really care about the age, if I’m able to get want I wanted. I’m fine!
 
I am cool with a two to five years age gap in my relationships. I don't get involved with anyone that is more than five years older or five years younger than me. Any age difference beyond five years, I always feel we are from different generations.
 
Many years back, I'd say it doesn't matter as long as they're 18. Few years after that, I said only those who could buy me a beer (21+). A few years after 30, I said once their brain has completely developed (26+).

Nowadays, I guess it just depends. I'm already in a committed relationship with a man 6 years younger than me. I guess if chemistry wasnt an issue, I'd still want someone over 30 at this point.
 
Fuzzball said:
Many years back, I'd say it doesn't matter as long as they're 18. Few years after that, I said only those who could buy me a beer (21+). A few years after 30, I said once their brain has completely developed (26+).

Nowadays, I guess it just depends. I'm already in a committed relationship with a man 6 years younger than me. I guess if chemistry wasnt an issue, I'd still want someone over 30 at this point.
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It is about being with someone that understands you better and aligns with your goals. That is the first thing that I consider when I think about going into any relationship.
 
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I can never date any lady who's older than me. It's never going to work out because a lot of them are very disrespectful thinking you can't correct them because they are older than you. It's a risk I wouldn't be willing to take with any lady.
 
Ja sa bong said:
I can never date any lady who's older than me. It's never going to work out because a lot of them are very disrespectful thinking you can't correct them because they are older than you. It's a risk I wouldn't be willing to take with any lady.
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A man ought to be older than the woman that he is dating, but what happens when a man finds an older woman to be attractive? Just curious to know.
 
Fuzzball said:
Many years back, I'd say it doesn't matter as long as they're 18. Few years after that, I said only those who could buy me a beer (21+). A few years after 30, I said once their brain has completely developed (26+).

Nowadays, I guess it just depends. I'm already in a committed relationship with a man 6 years younger than me. I guess if chemistry wasnt an issue, I'd still want someone over 30 at this point.
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Yeah, it is right to be in love or relationship with someone as far as the chemistry fits better. That is surely the way to go. As long as I am cool with such a person, age should just be a number.
 
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Zani said:
A man ought to be older than the woman that he is dating, but what happens when a man finds an older woman to be attractive? Just curious to know.
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I'm going to personalise this and say if I found out she's older, I would walk away from the relationship. It's a deal breaker for me in a relationship no matter how beautiful the lady looks.
 
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Ja sa bong said:
I'm going to personalise this and say if I found out she's older, I would walk away from the relationship. It's a deal breaker for me in a relationship no matter how beautiful the lady looks.
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Not to drag this further, but I want to know if you do this when the relationship is at the early stage or when she's fallen deeply in love with you?
 
Zani said:
Not to drag this further, but I want to know if you do this when the relationship is at the early stage or when she's fallen deeply in love with you?
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It's at the early stage. I wouldn't be doing anything blind in any relationship. I would have all the information from the beginning especially on or before the first date.
 
Ja sa bong said:
It's at the early stage. I wouldn't be doing anything blind in any relationship. I would have all the information from the beginning especially on or before the first date.
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This is a good mentality. Knowing who you want to get into a relationship with even before you start it. The information that you have can help you decide which way that you are going with the person. I like that 👌
 
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