What is the brutal advice that you have for men as regards relationships?

[Henrywrites]

When it comes to relationships, I believe that it is important for men to be open about what they want. If you see a girl that you like, tell her about it and see what she feels. It is either she says yes or no to your request. What other advice can you give to men?

 

[Alicia]

Some men don't know what they want sometimes. They will be so confused that they cannot open up to the girl they are dating that they will like the friendship to lead to marriage. These men will like to play until the girl finds another person, that's when they will sit up.

I will advise men to find any girl they are dating worthy of being married. They should stop checking out girls or trying to test them to know how worthy they will be for them.

 

[uptrendfinancialsignal]

I understand that brutal advice can be tough to swallow. Mine was : Men, take ownership of your emotions and communication. Stop expecting your partner to read your mind or fix your problems’’. I won't lie, this advice helped my relationship.

 

[Henrywrites]

I understand that brutal advice can be tough to swallow. Mine was : Men, take ownership of your emotions and communication. Stop expecting your partner to read your mind or fix your problems’’. I won't lie, this advice helped my relationship.

Communication is very important in every relationship. Say it how you want it, and be ready to hear what your partner would want to say. If you keep quiet, you will end up making the matter to be longer than expected.

 

[WontByte]

Compromise.

If you can't, it's not going to work.

Relationships aren't 50%/50. They are also 10%/90%, 40%/60%. You pick up what your partner can't, and they'll do the same.

 

[uptrendfinancialsignal]

Communication is very important in every relationship. Say it how you want it, and be ready to hear what your partner would want to say. If you keep quiet, you will end up making the matter to be longer than expected.

And if it gets longer, the more difficult it would become to resolve. It's always good to communicate and be quick about it. Identifying the third party in the conflict also helps a lot.

 

[Demon_skeith]

Figure out what you want and be ready to change everything for the one you love, your life isn't your own anymore.

 

[lens]

Someone told me this : Men, don't confuse being 'strong' with being silent. Vulnerability is strength, not weakness. Stop objectifying women; see them as equals.

 

[uptrendfinancialsignal]

This is another one; Financial stability isn't everything. Emotional intelligence and empathy matter more in the long run.

 

[Henrywrites]

Figure out what you want and be ready to change everything for the one you love, your life isn't your own anymore.

That's really beautiful. To be able to stay with your partner is everything. It always means having a really good time, and to be able to do so, you should let go of some things.

 

[Heatman]

My mentor told me that before thinking about going into a relationship, I should keep a pet for at least 1 year. If I can tolerate my pet for 1 year without getting fed up, it means that I'm ready to live with a women.

 

[Henrywrites]

Mentor told me that before thinking about going into a relationship, I should keep a pet for at least 1 year. If I can tolerate my pet for 1 year without getting fed up, it means that I'm ready to live with a women.

He was right. Women would behave in a way that if you are hot tempered, you won't even want to do anything with them. So, patience is seriously needed when dealing with women.

 

[Heatman]

He was right. Women would behave in a way that if you are hot tempered, you won't even want to do anything with them. So, patience is seriously needed when dealing with women.

I took that advice hook, line and sinker because I knew that it was the real truth. Now, I know how to deal with women and I can tell you that it's the easy at all.

 

[Ja sa bong]

I've been adviced that all women are cheats. I find it hard to believe because I know some of them are faithful.

 

[uptrendfinancialsignal]

Don't believe everything you hear! People are different, and not everyone is the same. Treat others with kindness and respect. Build trust and communicate openly in relationships.

 

[Alicia]

I've been adviced that all women are cheats. I find it hard to believe because I know some of them are faithful.

Not all women are cheats. There are some women that are faithful and same goes to men. Faithfulness is from personalities not a generalized fact.

 

[Ravenfreak]

Just talk to her, communication is key. It's hard to open up sometimes, but you need to at times to make your relationship work.

 

[uptrendfinancialsignal]

Just talk to her, communication is key. It's hard to open up sometimes, but you need to at times to make your relationship work.

Communication is indeed very important as it's the foundation of each and every relationship. I try to be honest and open with my partner as much as I can and it really helped me to prevent misunderstandings and it also strengthen our bond.

 

[Baw$e]

These **** ain't loyal. Don't keep a girl just because she gives you attention.

 

[Henrywrites]

Communication is indeed very important as it's the foundation of each and every relationship. I try to be honest and open with my partner as much as I can and it really helped me to prevent misunderstandings and it also strengthen our bond.

That's correct. For one to be able to achieve more, we need to have a relationship where you open up to your woman on what you really need to do and why a situation is how it is. That will go a long way in making everything feel okay.

 

[Demon_skeith]

Communication is indeed very important as it's the foundation of each and every relationship. I try to be honest and open with my partner as much as I can and it really helped me to prevent misunderstandings and it also strengthen our bond.

Yep, need to talk and face all issues, not run away and hope for the best.

 

[Jason]

You can't be controlling and if she leaves, you have to leave her alone. You have to face the fact she is free not to come back, but you can do things to improve the probability she will. Finally, you need to assess reasons why a relationship fails and some of it might be due to your immaturity.

 

[Rey619]

Love Yourself First before you go and try to love anyone else.

 

[Ja sa bong]

Love Yourself First before you go and try to love anyone else.

A lot of people don't understand the importance of self love. If you can't love yourself better, it's a very risky business to love another first before your own self.

 

[lens]

One very much-needed tip that I have is for men to stop pursuing women they have no chance with. The act of pursuing something you want that’s out of your reach might seem fun at first, but is in fact a pointless endeavor. Concentrate on establishing a rapport with that person, instead of being obsessed with love.

 

[Henrywrites]

A lot of people don't understand the importance of self love. If you can't love yourself better, it's a very risky business to love another first before your own self.

To love yourself is basically to be at peace with everything that you are doing. For me, that is the first step to falling in love and being at peace with yourself.

 

[Ja sa bong]

To love yourself is basically to be at peace with everything that you are doing. For me, that is the first step to falling in love and being at peace with yourself.

If you are not at peace with yourself, there's something seriously wrong. It's not possible to love someone when you're at war with yourself.

 

[Heatman]

Stay away from toxic women. It doesn't matter how gorgeous and beautiful they are, everything isn't about sex. You will never be happy in such a relationship.

 

[Ja sa bong]

Stay away from toxic women. It doesn't matter how gorgeous and beautiful they are, everything isn't about sex. You will never be happy in such a relationship.

Do you know women never believe they are bad or toxic. They only make out men to be the bad eggs. It's very disappointing with lots of them.

 

[Henrywrites]

Stay away from toxic women. It doesn't matter how gorgeous and beautiful they are, everything isn't about sex. You will never be happy in such a relationship.

Sex won't even guarantee happiness once the surrounding is not what we wish for. So, staying around a toxic woman is a big mess up that we won't be thinking of at all. Cutting her off early will bring peace of mind.