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We all have different experiences about life and what it is all about. When it comes to dating, is there anything you would wish to advise your son when he is still less than 15 about dating and relationships with women?
 
I would advise him to be attached to God, not people or other things. In that case, he won't be overwhelmed with heartbreak and all that stuff

And, of course, being upset is being only human, but the suffering can be reduced.

And this idea isn't unique to Christianity, but is also in Buddhism.
 
Take your time to find the right one, treat them right and be prepared to change your whole life for the new relationship they will work on getting.
 
Being controlling is what women hate. You have to learn to let go when not welcome and that also helps chances of her coming back.
 
The only thing I would mention to my son is the fact that before getting into any kind of relationship, it is important for one to respect personal values and worth. I would also make sure that I make him respects others, treats them gently as he wishes to be treated too.
 
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The only thing I would mention to my son is the fact that before getting into any kind of relationship, it is important for one to respect personal values and worth. I would also make sure that I make him respects others, treats them gently as he wishes to be treated too.

This is pretty cool. I have had a look at life and came to the realisation that understanding the need for one to have a better understanding of personal values and going ahead to respect them makes sense for healthy relationships in the longterm.
 
I would tell my son that he can't attract a kind of woman that has value if he himself doesn't have higher value. He I would advise him not to chase a lady for relationship early in life. He should work on improving himself and a right woman with value would naturally come around for them to be good compliments.
 
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Being controlling is what women hate. You have to learn to let go when not welcome and that also helps chances of her coming back.
You see this, that's the first to do in order to get any girl of your choice. If you decide as a man to start controlling a woman, you are chasing her faraway from you to another person that will allow her to fly and live her life without being blamed.
 
I would want him to focus more self-development and friendships rather than dating. I wouldn't want him to rush into romance.
 
I would advice him to never be a simp in his life because he's going to be used by ladies and trashed out like a worn out rag.

Also, he should never allow girl friend zone him.
 
I would advise my son who is below 15 years of age to concentrate on his future by acquiring the relevant skills that would help him in the future. Entering into a romantic relationship at that age can be distracting.
 
I will tell my son that relationship can always be there but he needs to add values in order to attract bird of the same feather. If he improve so well in himself, he will always get ladies that have the same alignment with him.