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Learning forgiveness has brought me true freedom as a person. To forgive means you will not forget harmful actions from others but you can free yourself from emotional weight to progress without resentment. There are lots of benefit from practicing forgiveness and so,you just have to let go of any grudges.
 
My belief is that forgiveness gives you genuine freedom. The simple act of forgiveness eliminates emotional heaviness in me when I was hurting. The freedom to find liberation comes through making a deliberate choice to forgive because it enables us to unburden ourselves from negative feelings and proceed with our lives.
 
Learning forgiveness has brought me true freedom as a person. To forgive means you will not forget harmful actions from others but you can free yourself from emotional weight to progress without resentment. There are lots of benefit from practicing forgiveness and so,you just have to let go of any grudges.
Forgive Forget and learn don’t repeat.
 
When one practices forgiveness truly, they let go of emotional weight that they would have been carrying around from past hurts. But forgiveness is always difficult when the person keeps hurting you either in the same way or other ways over and over again.
 
Having inner peace is what forgiveness brings for someone because as long as you're bitter towards someone, the hurt will never go away on your part.
 
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Forgiveness is not easy at all, but it frees your mind. Carrying anger around just drains you, like holding a heavy load for no reason. I’ve learned that forgiving doesn’t mean you forget or allow rubbish again, it’s just choosing peace for yourself.
 
It's not very easy to forgive someone or people that hurts you but if you really want to have peace, forgive them but leave some inch out of their life to avoid getting angry the second time again.
 
Sometimes its easier to forgive and move on, so long as the other person won't keep being a problem.
 
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It will give you a peace of mind. Those who can forgive have big hearts.
 
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As long as I don't have any business with that person again, my peace of mind is 100% intact. There are some things I can't forgive. For example, when someone tries to have me killed, I will never forget or forgive such. Whoever ask me to try and forgive such will turn into my my enemy too.
 
I totally understand you. Some things aren’t things a person can simply forgive that easily particularly when life is at stake. No one can force that.. You don’t have to let them come back into your life. Ease your mind a bit so the issue doesn’t keep occupying space there.
 
I totally understand you. Some things aren’t things a person can simply forgive that easily particularly when life is at stake. No one can force that.. You don’t have to let them come back into your life. Ease your mind a bit so the issue doesn’t keep occupying space there.
I have a mind that's hyper active. I don't ever forget things but that doesn't mean I allow them to bother me. As long as they are not getting in my face, they will never itch me.
 
Having inner peace is what forgiveness brings for someone because as long as you're bitter towards someone, the hurt will never go away on your part.

People should also learn not to hurt people who care so much about them. That is the first step towards being a better person instead of doing something wrong while expecting that they will be forgiven.
 
It will give you a peace of mind. Those who can forgive have big hearts.

I don't like holding grudges and that means I forgive when I need to do that. Holding what anyone has done against me in my mind is not the best way to go about it.
 
It will give you a peace of mind. Those who can forgive have big hearts.
You're absolutely right. If you really want peace of mind, you have for forgive. You might not forget but since forgiveness have been given, the pain will no longer be there when you remember.
 
When you forgive someone, you actually break the mental contract that you have wth them. It is only when you forgive that they can stop living in your head rent free.
 
When you forgive someone, you actually break the mental contract that you have wth them. It is only when you forgive that they can stop living in your head rent free.

Forgiveness brings joy and a relaxed mind. I am still thinking of what can make me hold grudges towards anyone for a long time and I've not seen any reason at all.