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What's the longest relationship you've been into?

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Falling in love with the right person is the biggest blessing because it have a higher chance of leading to marriage that will last for a long time.

Those who are unfortunate go into wrong relationship and they break up as quickly as possible because it's not meant to work.

What's the longest relationship you've been into?
 
5 years was my longest relationship, but before that, I was in a 4-year one that changed my life forever.


That first relationship, those four years, I’ll always be grateful for. We were young, trying to figure out life together, and even though it didn’t last, something beautiful came from it: our daughter.


She just turned 17 recently. 18 is around the corner and honestly, watching her grow has been the biggest blessing I never knew I needed back then.


The relationship didn’t work out, and that’s okay. Not everything is meant to last forever, but some things are meant to shape you. That part of my life taught me about love, growth, sacrifice, and letting go with peace.
 
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cpvr said:
5 years was my longest relationship, but before that, I was in a 4-year one that changed my life forever.


That first relationship, those four years, I’ll always be grateful for. We were young, trying to figure out life together, and even though it didn’t last, something beautiful came from it: our daughter.


She just turned 17 recently. 18 is around the corner and honestly, watching her grow has been the biggest blessing I never knew I needed back then.


The relationship didn’t work out, and that’s okay. Not everything is meant to last forever, but some things are meant to shape you. That part of my life taught me about love, growth, sacrifice, and letting go with peace.
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Your daughter is all grown up now at 18 years. My own girl is still a baby at 8 years. I know it's not going to be easy getting through teenage age with her. God help me 🙏🙁
 
Zani said:
My longest relationship was 1 year and 2 months. He was so amazing and annoying at the same time but I think I am not ready for relationship then, I decided to I break up with him.
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Unfortunately, no human being is perfect. It takes a great deal of tolerance, endurance and understanding to keep a relationship alive.
 
0 milliseconds, and these days that doesn't bother me like it used to.
 
Zani said:
My longest relationship was 1 year and 2 months. He was so amazing and annoying at the same time but I think I am not ready for relationship then, I decided to I break up with him.
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It is quite tough to realize that you are not really ready for a relationship but it is better to acknowledge this earlier because tolerance, endurance and understanding are indeed very vital for every relationship.
 
uptrendfinancialsignal said:
It is quite tough to realize that you are not really ready for a relationship but it is better to acknowledge this earlier because tolerance, endurance and understanding are indeed very vital for every relationship.
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I am learning more on tolerance, endurance in order to accommodate another person in my lane. I am understandable that humans ain't perfect.
 
Zani said:
I understand that no human is perfect but to me, I am thinking that I am not emotionally, financially or psychologically ready to accommodate another person.
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I can understand that very well and it's the right call you've made because if you force yourself being in a relationship with someone, it's not going work out.
 
Zani said:
I understand that no human is perfect but to me, I am thinking that I am not emotionally, financially or psychologically ready to accommodate another person.
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I support your notion because it is very important to take time to understand yourself before committing to someone else. That's how you can work in a relationship.
 
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The longest relationship that I have had was 19 months old. It was destined to land in marriage because the lady was a wonderful lady. Unfortunately, she had to relocate to another country and we realistically couldn't keep the relationship.
 
The longest relationship I was in was 11 years, and it wasn't a great relationship at all. The relationship I am in now is coming up for 11 years now and this one will be my longest eventually 🙂
 
My wife and I have been together since June 1st, 2009 and this is the longest relationship I've been in. I know we'll be together until the end for sure!
 
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Zani said:
Ladies are doing their things to get one or two from their partners and I don't really blame them. I think I was selfish with myself because I leave him when he's over heel in love.
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To me, you're not selfish. When you're sure returning what you get from your partner isn't going to possible but stay to benefit from them, it's what we call being a gold digger but you're not like that.
 
Ja sa bong said:
To me, you're not selfish. When you're sure returning what you get from your partner isn't going to possible but stay to benefit from them, it's what we call being a gold digger but you're not like that.
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You have concluded the story very well and not all everybody have the understanding that you leave in order for the other person to be alright but still, people can tag you a selfish being.
 
Henrywrites said:
If I would ask, is there a reason you decided to shut it out totally?
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I feel fake when I even remotely try to flirt or start conversations with the opposite sex. The last girl I tried to pursue didn't go so well, and it makes me feel as if relationships are more work, and one little mishap could blow the whole thing apart. I mainly stare at my computer and iPhone screen all day, make little money (though I am currently looking for a second job), I live with my parents, and the fact that I have no experience in the relationship field will turn most women away. For reasons like this, I also feel like many relationships in this day and age are fake, and many people pursue them due to societal/peer pressure.
 
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