Who's your parent's favourite amongst your siblings?

[Ja sa bong]

Do you think your parents had favourite amongst your siblings when your were all kids growing up? It's unfortunate some parents do this without knowing and when it's not balanced well in the family, it breeds separation between siblings.

Who's your parent's favourite amongst your siblings?

 

[cpvr]

My parents didn’t have a favorite child when we were growing up. We were all treated equally.

We were lucky, honestly. That kind of balance helped my siblings and I stay close, we’ve got a pretty solid bond and a relatively good relationship to this day.


I’m actually the oldest of 7. My parents had 3 other boys and 3 girls, so it could’ve easily gone the other way, but it didn’t.

 

[Demon_skeith]

Me, mostly because I didn't grow up to be a troublemaker.

 

[The Raven]

I believe it was me because I was the first child or maybe because I had some health issues so that they had to focus on me more. I am unsure how it came to this but it is like that. Of course, parents will always deny that fact but.. 😀

 

[Claraviolet]

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Well, my mom kinda backed me up most of the time as a kid... May be because I was always pestering her.... And I was a handful to deal with....
Even now, I am obsessed with my mom and try to spend more time with her and give her the reins over important stuff....

 

[Alicia]

For my father, our last baby was his favourite. He can do anything for her but to us, he was so strict that I wonder if he was really my true father.

 

[lens]

My parents tried to treat us equally, but to be honest, I think my mom had a soft spot for my younger sister just because she's the baby of the family.

 

[Alicia]

My parents tried to treat us equally, but to be honest, I think my mom had a soft spot for my younger sister just because she's the baby of the family.

I think parents do that often. They see the last baby as their womb closer and they will pour all the love they have on that baby.
The older siblings get jealous while some siblings especially the middle ones will try to beat the last baby always 🤣

 

[uptrendfinancialsignal]

@Alicia I think it is very normal for parents to have a special kind of bond with each of the children but in most cases it often occurs with the youngest siblings getting extra attention. This happens in my family too.

 

[Shortie]

I can't say my parents have a favourite, as me and my two brothers were always treated the same. I would say that my mum is not happy with how one of my brothers has turned out and wishes he would turn his life around.

 

[Heatman]

I literally grew up with my mom. This women beat the holy crap out of me all the time. At some point, I had to question her if I was truly her son because of the way she beats me like a criminal. She told me that she doesn't want to spare the rod and have me go to ruin. I think she did all that out of love.

 

[uptrendfinancialsignal]

I literally grew up with my mom. This women beat the holy crap out of me all the time. At some point, I had to question her if I was truly her son because of the way she beats me like a criminal. She told me that she doesn't want to spare the rod and have me go to ruin. I think she did all that out of love.

This is a complex issue because the family can be very dynamic and parental relationship with the children is not the same across all boards. Some parents strive to treat their children equally while others do not. Even children are not the same and that might also contribute to it as well. Parents might like an obedient child more.