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Have you ever felt.... Betrayed?

Claraviolet

Claraviolet

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I am not going to mention much but recently I wanted to talk to one of my close friends... She told me that....I shouldn't rant o.o
I do know that.... Then I noticed that... Even though she is talkative... She keeps certain boundaries from everyone. Even though she is my friend... She is my relative as well....
So I felt kinda felt betrayed and I did politely tell her...I will remember it for the near future.
Now, I do talk to her just like always... However, I don't think I can ever see her in the same light
 
I was once betrayed by my first love. It was a man that I gave all my heart only to discover that he got another lady pregnant. It was really heartbreaking for me, but I am glad that I got the strength to move on.
 
I've been betrayed on multiple occasions. Remembering the whole thing still aches my heart especially the one my so called best friend did with my sister. I will also add my friends I lend money who never paid back.
 
uptrendfinancialsignal said:
It’s always better to be positive and hope for the best when we are betrayed because betrayal takes time to heal. Moving forward is not quite easy but once you have forgiven the person, it's gives way for healing.
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Yeah I have forgiven those who have. It's definitely helped me to be better about watching out for the "signs". Even though they did suck, I'm grateful in that sense.
 
Heatman said:
I've been betrayed on multiple occasions. Remembering the whole thing still aches my heart especially the one my so called best friend did with my sister. I will also add my friends I lend money who never paid back.
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That's sad.
However it's kinda difficult to refuse... If we are close to the other person. To be honest I think... Financial stuff always breaks most of the relationships... For some weird reason.
In this world, I can blindly trust my mom and sister when it comes to financial stuff... But not anybody else.
 
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Claraviolet said:
That's sad.
However it's kinda difficult to refuse... If we are close to the other person. To be honest I think... Financial stuff always breaks most of the relationships... For some weird reason.
In this world, I can blindly trust my mom and sister when it comes to financial stuff... But not anybody else.
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The experience I had last year December still pisses me off whenever I remember it. I was in difficult spot but still had to lend money to a friend. He refused to pay back that money till date. I've drawn the line permanently on lending money to anyone who's not my brother, mother, father or sister.
 
Heatman said:
The experience I had last year December still pisses me off whenever I remember it. I was in difficult spot but still had to lend money to a friend. He refused to pay back that money till date. I've drawn the line permanently on lending money to anyone who's not my brother, mother, father or sister.
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That's sad.
I really don't get why people take advantage of others generosity in the first place. That's just not at all fair! Sometimes it's hard to trust even relatives when it comes to financial stuff ;_;
 
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Claraviolet said:
That's sad.
I really don't get why people take advantage of others generosity in the first place. That's just not at all fair! Sometimes it's hard to trust even relatives when it comes to financial stuff ;_;
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Seriously! Right now, it's only my mother and my immediate younger brother that I can trust with my money. Any other person can go to hell as far as I'm concern.

If I'm the last person they have hope of getting money from, they should better forget it.
 
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Heatman said:
Seriously! Right now, it's only my mother and my immediate younger brother that I can trust with my money. Any other person can go to hell as far as I'm concern.

If I'm the last person they have hope of getting money from, they should better forget it.
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Haha...I wish I could be that firm.
I do tend to lend small amounts to people even now.... and they never pay me back.. And that cycle continues... -_-"
 
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