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I can't bear losing loved ones or seeing them suffer. That has been my greatest fear. I want to be able to help in every way I can. The thought of being powerless to help or protect them is unbearable.
I don't have fears of regret anymore because I overcame the challenge of rejection or it not happening, thus reducing disappointment to nil.My worst fears have been regret or death.
That's a good note you have here. I'm reading and at the same time having some goosebumps on me. I wish I will have this kind heart to death. Yeah, I haven't achieved all but I have been afraid of how things will be for me. I am getting by in terms of agreeing that death can happen anytime.I don't have fears of regret anymore because I overcame the challenge of rejection or it not happening, thus reducing disappointment to nil.
I also feared death when I was young. Now, I've come to accept it's a part of life.
Take me at anytime. I am prepared. My family knows what to do to get the investing accounts, life insurance (matures Jan. 2025, so knock on wood I make it at least 3 more months), and survivor's death benefit payments. And since we fully own a home, they will be alright. I am contempt with life now knowing they are well-taken care of if I gotta get out of here earlier than expected.
I think everybody that love his or her family will always have this in mind. I don't want my family to suffer, the number one reason that I am hustling to get a better life for all of us.I can't bear losing loved ones or seeing them suffer. That has been my greatest fear. I want to be able to help in every way I can. The thought of being powerless to help or protect them is unbearable.
That's my soft spot. I feel very stressed and absolutely tensed when my loved ones needs help and I can't offer one to them at that moment.I think everybody that love his or her family will always have this in mind. I don't want my family to suffer, the number one reason that I am hustling to get a better life for all of us.
The only thing I fear of death is how it will happen, but understand that the process can be long or slow, but it will end at some point. Therefore, I don't dwell on it.That's a good note you have here. I'm reading and at the same time having some goosebumps on me. I wish I will have this kind heart to death. Yeah, I haven't achieved all but I have been afraid of how things will be for me. I am getting by in terms of agreeing that death can happen anytime.
I also fear health concerns, especially if it's hereditary. So, try to take very good care of my health. My family are known with heart attacks.For me, it's losing my sense of purpose or identity. The thought of feeling lost and uncertain about my direction in life is daunting. I also fear health issues. It can be difficult and devastating.
If everything is working well as they are supposed to at home, you don't have anything else to worry about I would say. A lot of people would want to have your life 😂Yeah, there's always room for improvement every day of your life. I'm always kind of clueless about what to improve on as it seems everything in my life is on auto-pilot and my mother is smart with paperwork and making calls about important matters, so she always takes care of those. Since my brother is currently jobless, he does most of the housework, but he even did that when he had a full-time job. I'm a hard worker at work but kind of lazy at home.
You felt tensed that you can't help out which I know isn't a bad thing. The more reason we need to stay alive and more for the comfortability of our loved ones.That's my soft spot. I feel very stressed and absolutely tensed when my loved ones needs help and I can't offer one to them at that moment.
Nothing is delighted about death. I never wanted run over, it's a very painful death. Cancer might give you times and moments that you can used to your fulfillment. A friend of mine said he will love to die in his bedroom.The only thing I fear of death is how it will happen, but understand that the process can be long or slow, but it will end at some point. Therefore, I don't dwell on it.
Run over? Instant. Cancer? Some pain, but eventually it goes away.
That would be best, in sleep.A friend of mine said he will love to die in his bedroom.
I feel that lol but not matter what. I'll always chase my dreams. The only way is up. Hard work beats talent every time.This is something that is capable of keeping me awake all through the night especially when I have evaluated everything and seeing that there isn't a way for me to be able to take care of a particular financial problem that is on my neck.
I agree. Someone who's talented can be lazy and all that talent goes to waste. But when you're hard working, there's no limit to what you can do.I feel that lol but not matter what. I'll always chase my dreams. The only way is up. Hard work beats talent every time.
You can only fail so many times before you find your grind and succeed 💯I feel that lol but not matter what. I'll always chase my dreams. The only way is up. Hard work beats talent every time.
It's when you quit that you have finally failed. This is why quitting is the last thing that will be available for me. I can take a time off but never quit.You can only fail so many times before you find your grind and succeed 💯
Fail up. Don't fail out.
It's okay to quit, but it's not OK to quit staying driven.It's when you quit that you have finally failed. This is why quitting is the last thing that will be available for me. I can take a time off but never quit.
I agree. When you quit staying driven, nothing else will appeal to you when it comes to giving your best to doing it. At this point, you might start feeling depressed.It's okay to quit, but it's not OK to quit staying driven.
You need to know when to take the L to chase the W.
I am yet to accept how I will die and I know it's good to have a prepared mind about death.That would be best, in sleep.
But, I've accepted it comes how it comes and it's over relatively quickly in comparison to your total lifespan.
I mean, you can never accept how you will die because that is an unknown. What you have to accept is that you will die, and hope that it's fast and painless.I am yet to accept how I will die and I know it's good to have a prepared mind about death.
I mean, you can never accept how you will die because that is an unknown. What you have to accept is that you will die, and hope that it's fast and painless.
On that note, be prepared for death: Keep a binder of important papers, bank documents, etc., so that your family can access funds and get your burial done right stress-free. If you can, get life insurance too.
That's bound to happen despite your wishes. We will all miss those that pass, it's just a part of life.not a death that will stress those that I left behind.
That's bound to happen despite your wishes. We will all miss those that pass, it's just a part of life.
You can make your death easier on them by preparing for it, if you can though. However, it's still going to be hard for your loved ones no matter how much you prepare. As someone who has probably experienced loss before, you can understand.
Poverty is a big curse. Anything that's going to make one stay in a poverty state should be avoided at all cost because it's going so depressing.I am scared of poverty. I don't want to lack the basic things of life, and that is how I have been living and enjoying my life so far! I do everything in a legitimate way to stay afloat.
It's very painful losing a pet, I can imagine how painful it's going to be losing a daughter. I wouldn't want to lose mine either.losing my daughter
L's also enable you to regroup and come up with a better gameplan. I've failed in some things in the past and manage to learn new things that enabled me to do better, and become better at certain things.I agree. When you quit staying driven, nothing else will appeal to you when it comes to giving your best to doing it. At this point, you might start feeling depressed.