Heatman

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Do you have anything that makes you quiver in fear whenever you remember it? Some people will say they are not afraid of anything but I don't believe that because as long as you're alive, there will definitely be one thing that gives you the creeps. Death is suppose to fear us but people have learnt how to accept death as a natural phenomenon, so it doesn't creep them out anymore.

What do you fear the most?
 
My worst fears have been regret or death. Years ago, I have always feared losing my loved ones either by natural death or something happening to them. I fear death as something that doesn't need to happen until it's given the go-ahead instructions but I think that it's mightier than what we take it as.

Currently, I don't fear losing them again because I have learned to shower them with the love, care, and attention they need from me so that I won't be afraid or regret if anything happens to them.
 
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Being ravaged by dementia and Alzhimer when I become old is the first thing ot what fears me the most. Secondly, leaving my baby behind when I pass on is giving me sleepless nights.
 
Being ravaged by dementia and Alzhimer when I become old is the first thing ot what fears me the most. Secondly, leaving my baby behind when I pass on is giving me sleepless nights.
You don't need to fear about those sickness. I think it's mostly a brain kind of disease and not every old person experience it. Just start now to remove your mind from it and you won't suffer from it😁.
 
You don't need to fear about those sickness. I think it's mostly a brain kind of disease and not every old person experience it. Just start now to remove your mind from it and you won't suffer from it😁.
Unfortunately, it's not that so easy as it sounds. When you have seen someone who's close to you get whacked up by it, it's going to give you a bad worry.
 
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Unfortunately, it's not that so easy as it sounds. When you have seen someone who's close to you get whacked up by it, it's going to give you a bad worry.
Now I get your point and I knew that it's not easy. The fear will always be there because you have experienced it first hand from someone close to you. But you know it's not certain that it will still happen to you, that's what I meant.
 
Now I get your point and I knew that it's not easy. The fear will always be there because you have experienced it first hand from someone close to you. But you know it's not certain that it will still happen to you, that's what I meant.
Yeah, I'm not certain it's going to happen to me and I'm also not certain it won't happen to me, so that's where the worry comes in.
 
I'm still somewhat afraid of death, mainly just how I'm going to die and if it's going to hurt or not. I have been watching a hospice nurse on Youtube talk about the death process and she even shared a video of a elderly woman passing from natural causes and she went into great detail on what our bodies do during this process. She mentioned that after a certain point, it's not painful and eventually when the end of life process is starting to reach it's final stages you're not even fully conscious anymore so it doesn't hurt. Though to living people it looks like the person is suffering.
 
I'm still somewhat afraid of death, mainly just how I'm going to die and if it's going to hurt or not. I have been watching a hospice nurse on Youtube talk about the death process and she even shared a video of a elderly woman passing from natural causes and she went into great detail on what our bodies do during this process. She mentioned that after a certain point, it's not painful and eventually when the end of life process is starting to reach it's final stages you're not even fully conscious anymore so it doesn't hurt. Though to living people it looks like the person is suffering.
Everybody is afraid of death. Everybody including me have thought the way we will die but when it look like you are going too far with the thought, you call yourself to order.
I will check out this process of dying, maybe it will give me an insight on what I need to know.
 
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My biggest fear is probably becoming homeless or dying completely alone because I have been living with my parents for 32/33 (almost 34) years of my life and I have very few life skills and I find it hard to make friends or be in a relationship. Thankfully, I have two siblings who will probably help me excel in life when my parents pass on, but it's still a fearful thought in the back of my head that I'll be clueless when my parents pass on about how to live life and how to deal with all that is to come.
 
Everybody is afraid of death. Everybody including me have thought the way we will die but when it look like you are going too far with the thought, you call yourself to order.
I will check out this process of dying, maybe it will give me an insight on what I need to know.
Although there are some people whom I would consider not being afraid of death because they actually the one that are looking for ways to end their lives. It's those who are suicidal as a result of their mental health issues.
 
My biggest fear is probably becoming homeless or dying completely alone because I have been living with my parents for 32/33 (almost 34) years of my life and I have very few life skills and I find it hard to make friends or be in a relationship. Thankfully, I have two siblings who will probably help me excel in life when my parents pass on, but it's still a fearful thought in the back of my head that I'll be clueless when my parents pass on about how to live life and how to deal with all that is to come.
I don't think it's too late for you to start working on something now that is going to be a very big project that you can always use to take care of yourself especially if you have siblings that can be able to back you up in standing on your own.
 
Although there are some people whom I would consider not being afraid of death because they actually the one that are looking for ways to end their lives. It's those who are suicidal as a result of their mental health issues.
I will never pray for my enemy to die. Death isn't something we can do and come back alive. I know that there are some people that wants to take their lives but it's conditions or circumstances that's pushing them, it's not their fault. I always felt for those that are suicidal because of mental health issues.
 
I will never pray for my enemy to die. Death isn't something we can do and come back alive. I know that there are some people that wants to take their lives but it's conditions or circumstances that's pushing them, it's not their fault. I always felt for those that are suicidal because of mental health issues.
Anything my enemy wishes me is what I'll wish the person 100 times. I'm not the person that compromises in anything that I'm doing. If you want good for me, I'm definitely going to want good for you but if you want bad for me, that is what you're going to get from me.
 
Anything my enemy wishes me is what I'll wish the person 100 times. I'm not the person that compromises in anything that I'm doing. If you want good for me, I'm definitely going to want good for you but if you want bad for me, that is what you're going to get from me.
Oh, I wasn't expecting it like this. But it's not good to wish your enemy bad thing. You giving them back the energy that they gave to you means that it's how you feel.